"Love in Reality..."
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the
person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply
because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not
for the man of
words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those who are capable of loving
from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel
the love deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness
without expecting him to come back.
Letting go is not just setting the other person free,
but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart. Do not let the bitterness
rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom
in bearing it.
You may found peace in just loving someone from a
distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us
to grow. We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only
with open
acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon
someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted
to that person. This feeling soon
becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin
to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship. Don't be so bitter about it! For it is a kind of friendship that will last for a lifetime.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and
be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for
ourselves. You don't have to forget
someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication
and love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen
not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better
is coming tomorrow: If you lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make it
sure
that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you.
Let go of yesterday and love will find its
way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.
"When I lost you, I
was the one who loved you most, but between us you lost more. For someday I can love someone the way that I loved you. But
you will never be loved again.
"Irony of Loving"
When
you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around,
you
might look around to find them. At that moment, you are in love.
Although there is someone else who always makes
you laugh, your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone. Then, you are in love.
Although that special
someone was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of their safe arrival, your phone is quiet. You are
desperately
waiting for the call! At that moment, you are in love.
If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from that
special someone than other many long e-mails, you are in love.
When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the
messages in your answering machine because of one message from that special someone, you are in love.
When you get
a couple of free movie tickets, you would not hesitate to think of that special someone. Then, you are in love.
You
keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend", but you realize that you cannot avoid that person's special
attraction. At
that moment, you are in love.
While you are reading this page, if someone appears in your mind, then
u are in love with that person.
